It’s cybersecurity month, October 2025, and with the Maroroi Project we’re shining a light on two of the most common myths we hear from Fijian parents about keeping children safe online.

Myth 1: Strangers are the biggest threat online

We all grew up hearing about “stranger danger” – don’t talk to people you don’t know (aside from the usual ‘Bula’ in passing of course), be alert if someone suspicious is staring at you on the street, or stay away from the creepy man at church. In the physical world, it’s often easier to spot the danger signs.

But online? It’s much trickier. The reality is that many of the risks to our children don’t come from strangers — they come from people they know: classmates, friends, even relatives. And in Fiji, where vuvale (family) is such a central part of our lives, that truth can feel even closer to home.

So, how do we protect our children?

1. Set clear boundaries. Let kids use devices in open spaces like the living room, not bedrooms. Keep accounts private and adjust settings so messages only come from people they know.
2. Teach about appropriate content. Help them know what to do if they see something harmful — whether it’s violent videos or pornography. If they’re on YouTube or gaming online, this is non-negotiable.
3. Have regular conversations. Share your own online experiences, ask about their interests, and keep the tone light. This way, if they feel unsafe online, they’ll know they can come to you in real life.

Myth 2: My child knows more about technology than I do, so they’re fine online

This is one of the biggest lies we parents tell ourselves. Yes, our kids might be quicker with gadgets, but that doesn’t mean they understand safety. Being “tech-savvy” is not the same as being safe.

Here’s what to remember:

1. Tech skills ≠ safety skills. Kids may know the latest app or game, but often don’t understand the risks. That’s where you step in. Look up reviews, check parent guides, or use the family safety centres available on apps like Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat.
2. Balance tech with real life. Make sure your child knows their safe spaces outside of screens — family, church, youth groups, friends. Technology is part of life, but not all of life.
3. Talk, talk, talk. Keep conversations open about devices and online behaviour. Remind them that technology is a tool to help us, not control us.

Final thoughts

These two myths need to be challenged often. As parents, we are in a battle for our children’s attention, values, and safety online. They are our gifts, and it’s our privilege to raise them with wisdom and strength.

Together, we can protect them. Together, we can be better.
Maroroi keda.

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